The following flower essences are related to boundaries.
Click on the name of the flower essence for more information and to check if it is pertinent to your need.
- Ancestral Patterns Formula
This is a combination of essences that facilitates: the awareness of specific patterning and conditioning from our ancestors or other societal groupings; deciding if we want to keep or rid ourselves of them; and then releasing or integrating them appropriately.
- Bright Star
Bright Star is indicated when we are unable to say “No” to an entangling situation or person. It helps us have healthy boundaries by trusting that we deserve what we want.
- Canyon Grapevine
For issues of autonomy, Canyon Grapevine brings appreciation of others as interdependent rather than competing. This essence helps us find a balance between dominance and dependency and encourages us to see obstacles as opportunities.
- Desert Christmas Cholla Cactus
This cholla cactus helps us communicate our limits with humor and ease, especially if we get caught up in other people’s needs or expectations. It is wonderful support when we have too many demands upon us and feel overextended.
- Devil’s Claw
Devil’s Claw activates our natural sense of morality. This essence supports us in taking responsibility for owning and expressing who we really are, separate from the projections of others. It is useful if we find ourselves using attractiveness or personal magnetism to manipulate others, or if we try to become who we think others want us to be.
Dogbane helps us to access the courage to follow our rebellious instincts, what is an important part of growth and change. It is for the fear that our rebellion will hurt or damage others, and the fear that we cannot take care of ourselves if we leave home. This is the essence to support self-confidence.
For those of us who become too easily distracted by the needs of others, Hoptree supports us in staying in alignment with our purpose and remaining focused on what is essential to us. It is excellent for anxiety about boundary making.
- Immune Formula
The Immune Formula is used to strengthen our protective systems through becoming aware of our own boundaries and individuality. It supports internal calm, protection and stability. It helps us in nurturing our inner fire, the life force and our own inner creative response to changes that disturb equilibrium.
- Making & Honoring Boundaries Formula
This is a formula to assist our awareness of how to make and honor healthy boundaries: to be able to interact with others without becoming enmeshed with their perceptions of who we are; to be able to give others the information necessary so that they will respect and honor us; and to facilitate removing walls of alienation.
- Milky Nipple Cactus
The Milky Nipple Cactus person demands constant attention from others. This “weaning” essence calms, gives a sense of belonging to the earth and transforms dependence into self-nurturing autonomy.
- Nice Guy Formula
This composite formula is for those who want to be nice at any price. It helps us have appropriate and straightforward relationships based upon respecting and empowering others, rather than rescuing them.
- Sangre de Drago
This flower essence helps us create good psychic boundaries based upon appropriate discrimination and natural morality. It is excellent for those who are afraid of their psychic nature as it fosters the acceptance of sensitive abilities with grounded practicality.
- Helpless Siren Formula
The Helpless Siren Formula inspires awareness of the ways in which we use manipulation or sexual implications to get our needs met. It strengthens our ability to know what our needs are so that we can choose appropriate ways to have them met.
- Single Mother’s Formula
The Single Mother’s Formula offers excellent support for issues resulting from single mothering such as: overwhelm associated with trying to play too many different roles; feeling that there is never enough time or resources for healthy child rearing; guilty feelings of doing too much or not enough for our children. It helps us to move the focus to our needs so that we can then be available in the best way possible.