Essence Type: Individual Flower Essence
Flower Color: silvery pink


Flower Essence Description

This cactus essence encourages our creativity and growth in dealing with a relationship that feels stuck. It is excellent for when we stay in a relationship that is not supporting our growth in some way.

Harmonizing Qualities

Patterns of Imbalance

How to use and related questions


Klein’s Pencil Cholla Cactus is related to the following keywords:

denialempowermentfearguiltintimacyjoylustobligatedoverindulgenceoverwhelmedrelationshipresignationresolutionstuckunablevictimvitalitywithdrawalabuseconnectiondominationindividuatemanipulationnon-attachmentoverpoweredresistanceclingingsexualitypleasuredesiresholding back


Klein’s Pencil Cholla Cactus is mentioned in the following core-issue articles:

The Core Issue: Emotional/Mental Self-Care
For clarifying what your needs are and ascertaining if another is capable of fulfilling them
The Core Issue: Intimacy
feelings of lust are overpowering consideration of your partner
The Core Issue: Obligation
staying in a relationship that is holding you back emotionally; hiding behind your obligation in the relationship.
The Core Issue: Pleasure
for focusing solely on your own pleasure in a sexual relationship instead of caring about your partner's pleasure


Klein’s Pencil Cholla Cactus is part of the following series or practitioner kits:

Individual Essences Kit

This kit contains our full line of 119 individual flower essences, all of which are described in depth in The Alchemy of the Desert – Fourth Edition.

Desert Alchemy